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PUBLISHER 8 january 2026 www.goodnewsfl.org Good news • South Florida Edition Like many of you out there, I’m fascinated by artificial intelligence (AI) because my mind wanders constantly; no matter what I hear, no matter what I think about, scenarios run rampant in my mind with a series of what ifs and how comes? I have an insatiable desire to wanna know things. I playfully suggest I’ve got an endless supply of useless information that somehow crystallizes through a series of song titles in search of divinity and deep meaning. With much puzzlement about the actual Bible in all of its offerings, summarized by acronyms, NIV, NKJV, etc., I can’t help but be tempted to simulate a conversation with Jesus, who knows all, because HE already knows the future. In a ChatGPT conversation with Jesus, I asked, "Dude, it's been a long time, and with all due respect Mr. Jesus, I’m casually calling you ‘dude’ because you hang out in schmattas (robes) and sandals. I get it. I live in Florida. I wear shorts and T-shirts, so it’s cool with me. You’d never think of taking an Uber, so let’s just hang out shooting the breeze. Let’s walk along the beach on A1A, and then we can stop by the Elbo Room for a cool drink? But I beg you, Jesus — I know about your trick of turning water into wine, but these are my friends, and you’ll wreck their business if they see that, OK? But one thing first, Jesus… you keep calling me ‘my son,’ but if you’d speak a little softer when you say that, I’d appreciate it because I have sons older than you.” “So, what have you been doing lately?" AI would likely yield a response blending divine wisdom, gentle redirection and focus on eternal matters rather than daily human activities, perhaps saying something like, "I've been tending the flock, guiding hearts, preparing the way, and watching my children. You, my friend, are always on My mind, so tell me, how fares your spirit?" Here's a potential breakdown of AI's response: • A gentle correction: Instead of a casual "dude," Jesus might use a term like "My friend," "Child," or simply address you directly, setting a tone of love and guidance. • Focus on the eternal: AI would steer away from earthly timelines, emphasizing ongoing spiritual work: "I've been weaving hope, mending brokenness and whispering truths into the hearts of those who listen". • Emphasis on the now: Drawing from teachings, it would likely bring the focus to the present moment: "But more importantly, what of your journey? I've been right here, waiting for you to call.” • A question back: A common theme in spiritual discourse is turning focus back to the individual's spiritual state: "Tell me, what weighs on your heart today? What joys or burdens can we share?" Example AI response: "My dear friend, time for Me is not as it is for you; I have been working in the quiet spaces of hearts, nurturing seeds of faith and guiding souls back to the light. I've been present in every prayer, every act of kindness and in the unfolding of My Father's eternal plan. But enough of My work for a moment — tell Me, what brings you to seek Me now, and how can I walk with you today?" Jesus, I’m noticing a familiar pattern here. Like most Jews, you answer most questions with a question. You’re big on parables, but when I used to ask my grandma, “Grandma, how do you feel?” she would answer, “How am I supposed to feel?” So now I have the answer to generations of questions when people ask why most Jews answer questions with questions. Ah, haa. A Conversation with Jesus Via AI - Leslie J. Feldman - Publisher Advertising: We reach over 110,000 readers each month. 80,000 in print and 30,000 via our online digital edition. 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LETTERS 10 january 2026 www.goodnewsfl.org Good news • South Florida Edition No Backing Down in the Face of Persecution by Franklin Graham, President and CEO, Samaritan’s Purse and Billy Graham Evangelistic Association Praying for great revival! - Nadine Richmond Adkins Stack Prayers for Nigeria as well thousands of Christians are being persecuted and put into camps by the Islamic terrorists. - Carolyne Renee Get some revival going in our country!!! - Elden Rockafellow What if Jesus Had Never Been Born by Dr. Rob Pacienza, Pastor, Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church What if “Christians” realize that Jesus lives inside of all of us? That he didn’t come with a Bible, a flag and a church? Because then you’d be bathed in truth… - Andrea Renee Smith-Hall Christmas 2025 by Leslie J. Feldman, Good News Publisher Your article ‘Christmas 2025’ was superb! I love the stories about Andy Rooney… - Bill Kent He would still have lots of lovely things to say about Christmas but he would be so disappointed about the state of the country and the world today. - Merri Novak I really missed Andy. It was the best part of 60 Minutes. - Janice Pickett Smith Debilitating Debt by Patrick J. Kelly, President, Kelly Advisory Grou[ Pat Kelly’s article this month was really great. Thank you. - Bob Barnes Good News Celebrates 2025- 2026 Faith Leaders I’m thankful for these leaders – they are leading the changes in our communities. - Susan Bigler Our very own Ap. Jason Jackson as honored by Good News, alongside fellow servant leaders for the 9th Year. - The Lion’s Den Missions Based Our very own Pastor Newcombe is featured. Pick up your copy in the Narthex on Sunday morning. - New Presbyterian Church Great to see my friend Larry Lacy and Joe Vitkus profiled as the amazing leaders that they are in South Florida! - Jason Libby Blessings to you all. - Raymond Freer Are We Missing the Point of Christmas with Our Kids by Dr. Bob Barnes and Torrey Roberts Teach them about the young Jesus. How he came to the earth so we could have eternal life. - John King Yes, because they need to know the real reason for the season not a fictional character like Santa. - David Dorothy Mendenhall The Story We Forget to See by Lisa May, Executive Director, Relate Well Live Well All lives matter. Jesus said that over 2000 years ago. - Scoop Mendenhall PUBLISHER . . . . . . . . . . . . . .8 A Conversation with Jesus Via AI– by Leslie J. Feldman WE GET LETTERS . . . . . . . . .10 PERSPECTIVE . . . . . . . . . . .12 Sell Fish– by Stephan N. Tchividjian IN THE WORD . . . . . . . . . .14 King of Kings and Lord of Lords— by Franklin Graham FAITH & CULTURE . . . . . . . .16 Family Matters – by Dr. Rob Pacienza PARENTING . . . . . . . . . . . .18 How to Build a Close-Knit Family in a Busy World – by Dr. Bob and Torrey Roberts THE CODE . . . . . . . . . . . . . .20 A new Beginning – by Dr. O.S. Hawkins HEART AND SOUL . . . . . . .22 Reimagining New Year’s Resolutions – by Dr. Debra A. Schwinn and Dr. Phil Henry GOOD NEWS WANTS TO KNOW . . 24 – 26 What lesson did 2025 teach you that you didn’t expect? FOSTER CARE . . . . . . . . . . 28 Running with the End in Mind – by Andrew Holmes COVER ARTICLE . . . . . .30 - 31 Faith Farm Ministries Celebrates 75 Years of Faith and Restoration – by Shelly Pond STEWARDSHIP . . . . . . . . . .32 FOMO – by Patrick J. Kelly HOPE . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .34 Devotion and Intentionality in Action: Reflections from a Weekend of Ministry – by Joseph Kenner ENCOURAGEMENT . . . . . .36 Ditch the Flesh – Pitch the Spirit – by Omar Aleman LEGAL Q & A . . . . . . . . . . .38 Power of Attorney is a Powerful Way to Protect Your Interests – by William “Bill” C. Davell and Jeff Frauer HISTORY . . . . . . . . . . . . . .40 A Great Goal for the New Year – by Jerr Newcombe ON THE NET . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . .42 COMMUNITY NEWS . . . . . .44 - 48 CALENDAR . . . . . . . . . . . . .50 - 51 CLASSIFIEDS . . . . . . . . . . . .52 - 55 We Get Letters South Florida Edition • Good News December 2025 • Volume 27, Issue 9 CONTENTS
Sell Fish PERSPECTIVE 12 january 2026 www.goodnewsfl.org Good news • South Florida Edition I can imagine that if you had met one of the interns of Jesus before they were officially following Him and asked, “What is the purpose of your life?” they might have answered, “Sell fish.” Many people living 2,000 years ago made their living growing crops, raising livestock, building and repairing structures or selling fish. I imagine the vocation of selling fish — especially along the shore of a lake — was fairly stable and even lucrative. Like any profession, it carried its share of hardship, competition and long hours. Then one day, Jesus comes walking along the shoreline and makes a beeline for a few men selling fish. He calls them by name, which suggests this wasn’t their first encounter. After all, He had grown up in the same region. And with a single invitation, He challenges their existing purpose and invites them into something entirely new. It’s a bold move. A public interruption. A redefinition of identity. He even uses a metaphor — something Jesus loved to do — suggesting that serving people, not fish, would now define their lives. This idea has captured my curiosity. Each year, as I reflect on the past and prepare for the future, I pray that God would give me a word — something that becomes my north star. The process is reflective and honest. I take inventory of my purpose, character, wins, failures, flaws, vocation, friendships and how I steward my time. I try to be patient as I listen for that word. I’ve been taught my whole life that to lead well, one must be a servant leader. I’ve also been taught that selflessness is a virtue to pursue — that it’s better to focus on others than on self. Many of my heroes, both biblical and modern, seem to have sacrificed nearly everything for others. Questioning my assumptions But lately, I’ve found myself questioning some of these assumptions. Is it possible that being a little more selfish could actually be advantageous? If we view life through the lens that the end justifies the means, could selfishness sometimes be good for everyone involved? For example, a workaholic parent who sacrifices time with family to provide opportunity, stability and education — could that actually be love expressed differently? We’re often quick to label such behavior as selfish, but perhaps it’s more complicated than that. I began to notice a few apparent advantages of selfishness. First, there’s the allure of being unfiltered. The freedom to say, write or post whatever I want under the banner of “authenticity” feels liberating. No restraint. A poster child for self-expression. I tell it like it is — because I see a lot. Second, there’s clarity. When I become the primary beneficiary of my own life, everything simplifies. Every relationship, every role, every decision becomes transactional — evaluated through the lens of How does this benefit me? Life becomes efficient, streamlined… even profitable. The “golden era of me.” Finally, selfishness offers protection. It shields me from vulnerability. It allows me to suppress empathy — because empathy can be costly. It can soften resolve, blur boundaries and lead me to give more than I intended. How many times have we cared deeply for someone, only to feel taken for granted, unappreciated, or used? That kind of pain leaves a mark. Finding my purpose So I thought I had found my purpose. My life’s purpose is to sell fish. It’s simple. It’s profitable. It’s winnable. It’s efficient. Booyah. But then one morning, I notice a figure approaching from the shore. As He draws closer, He becomes familiar. A carpenter. A stonemason. Perhaps He’s thinking of changing careers. Perhaps He’s curious about my success. I catch myself subtly performing — showing off a bit — thinking He must be impressed with how I’ve figured life out. Then He looks at me. And something shifts. He knows me. He knows what I do and why I do it. He knows my ambitions, my fears, my wounds, my striving. He knows how hard I work to win — to matter — to make a name for myself. And suddenly, I feel exposed. Then He speaks. He invites me to give up my identity as one who sells fish and to become someone who serves people. He invites me to watch His life — to see that mine, for all its striving, is thin and unsatisfying by comparison. He gently reveals that my way is leading toward loneliness and regret, while His way leads toward generosity, meaning and life. He shows me that a life poured out for others is far richer than a life spent protecting myself from them. And everything changes. My word of the year I’ve settled on my word for the year: encourage. To encourage means to give someone courage, confidence or hope — especially when they feel weary, uncertain or afraid. I’m increasingly aware of how many people, across every culture, generation and stage of life, desperately need what Jesus so freely gives. And somehow, He has invited me to participate in that work. When He leads, the rules change. I must be more filtered, not less. Less transactional, more present. Less guarded, more empathetic. But I am no longer fishing alone. I fish with Him. Stephan N. Tchividjian is the CEO and co-founder of the National Christian Foundation South Florida. Visit southflorida.ncfgiving.com to learn more. - Stephan Tchividjian - CEO and Co-Founder, National Christian Foundation South Florida
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14 january 2026 www.goodnewsfl.org Good news • South Florida Edition IN THE WORD As I write this, I have just returned from preaching the Gospel of the Lord Jesus Christ in Buenos Aires, Argentina, where nearly 7,000 people surrendered their lives to the Lord, confessing their sins and trusting in Christ alone as their Savior. After all these years when God has given us wonderful opportunities to proclaim Christ crucified, buried and risen, I am still amazed at the ways the same Gospel message affects different hearers. When I give the invitation to receive Christ and look out over the crowd, I see some people with tears streaming down their faces as they come forward, and others standing with their arms crossed and their jaws set, refusing to budge. I can only explain it as the supernatural working of the Holy Spirit convicting hearers of God’s Word and bringing them by His grace to repentance and faith. Salvation is always the work of God in the hearts of men. Like Lydia in the New Testament who heard the Apostle Paul’s message, the Lord opens their hearts to believe (Acts 16:14). Human pride makes many stiffen their necks — “they did not receive the love of the truth, that they might be saved” (2 Thessalonians 2:10). They simply will not bow their knees before our Lord and King, Jesus Christ. At Christmas, we know that Jesus was born in a stable, not only as the Savior of the world, but as the King promised long ago to Abraham’s seed in Genesis 17:6 and in Isaiah’s memorable prophecy 700 years before Jesus’ birth: “For unto us a Child is born, … and the government will be upon His shoulder. … Of the increase of His government and peace there will be no end, upon the throne of David and over His kingdom … the zeal of the Lord of Hosts will perform this” (Isaiah 9:6-7). The Magi who came from the East to worship baby Jesus inquired of King Herod: “Where is He who has been born King of the Jews? For we have seen His star in the East and have come to worship Him” (Matthew 2:2). Jesus was King at birth, He is King today and He will be King tomorrow. Jesus regularly proclaimed the Kingdom of God because He was and is the King whose Kingdom knows no end and rules over all creation. This is the hope of Christmas. As the Apostle Paul wrote: “Let this mind be in you which was also in Christ Jesus, who, being in the form of God, did not consider it robbery to be equal with God, but made Himself of no reputation, taking the form of a bondservant, and coming in the likeness of men. And being found in appearance as a man, He humbled Himself and became obedient to the point of death, even the death of the cross. Therefore God also has highly exalted Him and given Him the name which is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, and of those on earth, and of those under the earth, and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father” (Philippians 2:5-11). Remember that when you receive Christ as your Savior, you are also inviting Him to be the Lord and King of your life. He deserves your wholehearted allegiance, devotion and obedience. He is worthy of our unceasing worship and praise. Your loyalty is now to the Lord Jesus Christ, who gave Himself for you, shedding His blood for the forgiveness of your sins, and who reigns in your heart through the Holy Spirit. He is the Master; you are His servant. He commands; we obey. All the succession of kings in the Old Testament were but a preview of the arrival of the True King, the Lord Jesus Christ, the promised Messiah. “But you, Bethlehem Ephrathah, though you are little among the thousands of Judah, yet out of you shall come forth to Me the One to be Ruler in Israel, whose goings forth are from of old, from everlasting” (Micah 5:2). And one day very soon—and I do believe it will be soon—Jesus will return on a white steed to judge all who have rejected Him. The Bible tells us His eyes will be flaming like fire, His head will wear many crowns, and His robe will be dipped in the blood of His enemies. Riding with Him will be the armies of Heaven. On that day, there will be no mistaking or denying Him. “And He has on His robe and on His thigh a name written: KING OF KINGS AND LORD OF LORDS” (Revelation 19:16). I am reminded of the lyrics in the hymn “O Worship the King”: “O worship the King all-glorious above, O gratefully sing His power and His love: our shield and defender, the Ancient of Days, pavilioned in splendor and girded with praise.” Worship the King — Jesus of Nazareth, Son of God, Son of Man, Creator, Redeemer, Savior — and bow your heart and knee before Him. Christ is on His throne, ruling over all. May He rule in your heart forever. ©2025 BGEA Scripture quotations are taken from The Holy Bible, New King James Version. Decision magazine, December 2025; ©2025 Billy Graham Evangelistic Association; used by permission, all rights reserved. Jesus Christ: King of Kings and Lord of Lords - Franklin Graham - President and CEO Samaritan’s Purse and Billy Graham Evangelistic Association Photo Credit: BGEA
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FAITH & CULTURE 16 january 2026 www.goodnewsfl.org Good news • South Florida Edition The natural family — that God-designed part of the created order, which is the fountain of new life, the training ground for future members of society, and the bulwark of societal liberty — is very much undermined and even threatened in twenty-first century America. Scanning the horizon, we see increasing numbers of young adults rejecting the institution of marriage and family, a spike in the number of children born out of wedlock, a steady number of families torn apart by divorce, and a radical redefinition of marriage by the Supreme Court of the United States. When we focus on alarming changes like these, it’s easy to lose sight of the significance of the family in God’s design for the world. Thus, we are wise to remind ourselves of God’s design for the family and equip ourselves to articulate its necessity in the face of competing secular views. In what way is the family unit vital for the flourishing of societies and nations? The history of the human race did not begin through isolated individuals but through the marital relationship of a man and woman and their subsequent family. From that first family have come many communities, tribes and nations. In other words, from that first family have come many societies. The word society refers to a group of people living together in an ordered community. A society arises when individuals agree to cooperate together to pursue common interests. Although animals have societies also, human society is unique in characteristics such as language, morality and religion. So, a society is a group of people who pursue common objectives by living together in a community characterized by language, morality and religion. A person becomes a member of society by being born into a family of some sort — whether a traditional family unit, a foster family or some other type of familial unit. And it is within the family that a person learns to be a member of society. He or she learns to submit to authority (fathers and mothers), negotiate with peers (siblings), respect other individuals, and contribute to the common good. In other words, the family is the most basic unit of society. The family is a fixed aspect of creation order, one that God has ingrained in human nature. It is prior to the state and should be safeguarded and sheltered by the state. For it is only through healthy families — which are prior to the state — that the state can maintain optimal strength and health. What can we do to affirm God’s design in an age that devalues the family? The first thing we must do is strengthen our own families. As husbands and wives, we must love our spouses unconditionally, committing to work on our marriages so that our children will have a high view of marriages. As fathers and mothers, we must model for our children the kind of love that God has for them. The second thing we must do is encourage young couples to welcome fatherhood and motherhood. Toward that end, we can praise the virtues of parenthood and point out the demerits of purposely childless marriages. Parenthood is a high calling and a great blessing from God. The third thing to do is exert our influence at the political level. Toward this end, we must encourage legal and constitutional protections around marriage as the union of one man and one woman. We must encourage the transformation of housing and welfare programs so that they incentivize and reinforce the family unit. We must encourage tax incentives that are tied to marriage and the number of children. We must resist our nation’s aggressive promotion of androgyny and homosexual marriage. And, finally, we must pray. Pray that God will strengthen our own marriages and families. Pray that God will empower us to be change agents in a society that devalues marriage and family. Pray that God will bless our efforts so that enemies of the traditional family unit lose their influence. This is essential for a flourishing society. Rob Pacienza is the Senior Pastor of Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church (Fort Lauderdale, FL), the CEO and President of Coral Ridge Ministries, and the Founder of the Institute for Faith and Culture. - Dr. Rob Pacienza - Senior Pastor, Coral Ridge Presbyterian Church Family Matters
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18 january 2026 www.goodnewsfl.org Good news • South Florida Edition PARENTING Have you ever had a moment where you feel like, “Is this real life?” That there are just too many family and parenting responsibilities, and it is impossible to get them all done? There must be a hidden camera somewhere in the house just waiting to film you as you crack under the pressure. In fact, by the way you hear your children talk to each other, it sounds as if they are about to vote each other off the island. “I can’t get my children to talk nicely to each other let alone take care of each other,” one mother confessed. “This whole dream of being a loving family seems so futile.” Creating a loving family environment doesn’t just happen. It’s something you do. The first question a parent or parents need to ask themselves is, “Why bother? Why is it so important to teach family cohesiveness?” Family is the environment that God has chosen to raise the next generation in. It’s not meant to be an elite boarding house where children and young people are fed and then transported to activities. Family is the first society a child interacts with. It is the place he or she will learn how to minister to people and their needs, and how to care about people other than self. When you look at the schedule of many families today, you would think the primary goal is the accomplishment of as many activities as possible. It is as if we are all in a reality television show called “The Ultimate Family Marathon.” The goal being, how many activities can a family cram into one week and remain sane? Build a positive home environment Dropping children off at school, church, sports and other extracurriculars does not build family, it builds individuality. Not that there is anything wrong with any of these activities, but there is something wrong with all of these activities forcing us to constantly run in different directions. Life is not about performing. In fact, life is much more about relationships, and relationship building begins at home. Children and teens need a place to practice relationships. They also need a safe environment to return to each day for unconditional love. Family needs to be a place where they can ask questions without being made to feel stupid. An environment where other family members will cheer their efforts, so that they are willing and motivated to continue risking the effort to become the person God created them to be. Children need to know that family is the place where they will not be judged, nor will they hear harsh or sarcastic words directed at them. The family motto needs to be “Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen” (Ephesians 4:29, NIV). Create a team mindset I can hear the mom asking, “Yes! I agree! But how do I get my children to do that?” Children do not automatically encourage the people around them, and that goes double for siblings. There is jealousy and competition often within a family environment so parents need to create a team atmosphere. Parents need to help children become excited about working together. What do you do as a family unit? To guide a family into becoming a team, parents need to lead the way to activities that the family accomplishes together. Most activities today have divided families into two categories, participator/performers and spectators. What does your family do to get everyone in the family involved? Plan to play games together, go on family vacations where you spend time together, or do a family project around the home or in the community. These are family activities that begin to define who you are as a team. These are also projects that help children hear the parents compliment each other as everyone is working together. Our family relationships often boil down to little more than badgering that child who dawdles to get in the car or he’ll cause us to be late… again. That is the only “encouragement” they hear from us. Set goals for the new year As we look at this new year and creating family goals, let one of them be to find things to do as a family unit. Create activities that force your family to work or play together. Then use that time to verbally encourage all the participants. It is not the specific activity that you are trying to conquer. This year let’s focus on creating that loving and supporting family environment! Visit parentingonpurpose.org for more advice from Dr. Bob Barnes and Torrey Roberts. - Dr. Bob Barnes and Torrey Roberts - Sheridan House Family Ministries How to Build a Close-Knit Family in a Busy World
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THE CODE 20 january 2026 www.goodnewsfl.org Good news • South Florida Edition My father's family moved to Texas from Tennessee back in the 1800s. When I was a boy, we would make our annual summer road trip back to the Volunteer State to visit, among others, my great-aunt Ann. I loved those long car trips in the days before interstate highways. I can still remember the excitement I felt when we passed a barn that had "Visit Rock City" painted on its roof or the fun of reading the old Burma Shave signs along the way. We'd stay in her house, and I slept on an iron bed with a feather mattress. I once heard an old preacher say life was like those old feather mattresses. I can relate to that - anyone who has ever slept on one of those supersoft beds has awakened in a ball in the middle of the mattress The bed was firm on both iron ends but, oh, that sagging middle. Some Christians live their entire lives like that. They are firm on both ends. On the front end, they can point to a specific moment in time when they placed their trust in Christ, and they live with the assurance that they are born again. They are also firm on the other end: they know they are going to heaven when they die. But between those two events, they live their lives like a feather mattress, often sagging and without strength and Joy in their Christian walk. Acts of the Holy Spirit Luke opened the book of Acts with these words: "The former account I made ...of all that Jesus began both to do and teach" (Acts 1:1) Wait. Did you catch that? The Gospels are only the account of what Jesus began to do. He is not finished. He was just getting started. He is still active. He may not physically be here today, but He continues to use the Holy Spirit — and you — to accomplish his work. We often call the book of Acts the "Acts of the Apostles " But that's not really what it is. It is about the acts of the Holy Spirit, which are still being accomplished today in and through you and me. Luke's gospel tells us what Jesus did and taught in His physical body. The book of Acts tells us what the Holy Spirit continues to do in and through His spiritual body, the church. What an encouragement to know that Jesus is still at work and using the partnership between you and the Holy Spirit to present to the world a picture of Himself today. Acts is the story of what the Lord Jesus continues to do through the work of the Holy Spirit in our lives. You will notice, however, that the book of Acts ends rather abruptly It just stops. That is because the story goes on and on, all the way to today. An impossible task Anyone who has sought to live the Christian life has come to the discovery that it is not difficult — no, it is, in fact, impossible! Impossible, that is, if we seek to live it in our own strength. God is not interested in us doing something for Him. The secret to victorious Christian living is allowing the Holy Spirit to live and do something through us. It is no wonder Paul exclaimed, “Christ in you, the hope of glory” (Colossians 1:27). When you awaken to the Holy Spirit's power in you. a new dimension of Christian living will greet you. This is what Jesus was getting at when He said, “Most assuredly, I say to you, he who believes in Me, the works that I do he will do also; and greater works than these he will do, because I go to My Father" (John 14:12). This is an amazing statement. Jesus is saying we will not Just equal what He did while on earth, but we will exceed His works. Some people see this verse, roll up their sleeves, and go out seeking to work harder and harder in their attempt to do something for God. And they meet with failure every time. Awaiting help The key to understanding Jesus' meaning here is found in His statement that He was returning to the Father. We find the answer four verses later. "I will pray the Father, and He will give you another Helper, that He may abide with you forever" (John 14 16). In that upper room conversation, Jesus went on to promise, "I will not leave you orphans, I will come to you" (John 14 18). And come back He did, in the power and presence of the Holy Spirit who accomplishes greater works in us, never leaves us, and empowers us to live the Christian life. After Jesus left the disciples bodily, they gathered in the upper room and waited "for the Promise of the Father" (Acts 1·4) - the coming of the Holy Spirit. They didn't gather there until they were worthy to receive Him. Who of us is worthy in our own power? They waited for the Helper that Jesus had promised, "the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in My name, He will teach you all things, and bring to your remembrance all things that I said to you" (John 14:26). True to His word, the Holy Spirit fell upon all of them on the day of Pentecost and they and we have never been the same since. The power of Jesus does not end with the gospel records. He had just begun The Holy Spirit continues His work today on this earth in you, through you, for you, and upon you. Victorious life is about the Holy Spirit and you. Now it is time to turn the page and discover all that having the Holy Spirit in you means. Taken from The Spirit Code by O.S. Hawkins. Copyright © 2024 by Dr. O.S. Hawkins. Used by permission of Thomas Nelson. O. S. Hawkins is the Legacy Pastor of First Baptist Church of Fort Lauderdale, chancellor of Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary and President Emeritus of GuideStone. He has served pastorates, including the First Baptist Church in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, and the First Baptist Church in Dallas, Texas, for more than 25 years. A native of Fort Worth, Texas, he has a BBA from Texas Christian University and his MDiv and Ph.D. from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary. For almost a quarter of a century, he served as president of GuideStone Financial Resources, with assets under management of $20 billion, serving 250,000 pastors, church staff members, missionaries, doctors, university professors, and other workers in various Christian organizations with their investment, retirement and benefit service needs. He is the author of more than 40 books and regularly speaks to business groups and churches nationwide. All of the author’s royalties and proceeds from the Code series support Mission:Dignity. You can learn more about Mission:Dignity by visiting MissionDignity.org. - Dr. O.S. Hawkins - Chancellor, Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary A New Beginning
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HEART AND SOUL 22 january 2026 www.goodnewsfl.org Good news • South Florida Edition Setting and following resolutions, especially at the start of the New Year, is not easy. Often, we fall back into old routines, feel discouraged about those failures, and give up the goals altogether. In this article, Dr. Phil Henry, Palm Beach Atlantic University (PBA) professor of counseling and licensed mental health counselor, shares how eliminating hangups and embracing godly choices and new seasons can help us all reach — and stick to — our goals. When it comes to resolutions, we are notoriously bad. According to Forbes Health, New Year’s resolutions only last two to four months before people give up. We eat more than we planned, exercise less, and slip back into old patterns like a pair of comfy pants. Change, especially godly change, is not as simple as it seems. But it can be made easier with two simple steps: 1. Burn bridges. Eliminate what occupies the territory you must conquer. 2. Build bridges. Leave where you are and go to where you have not been. I will first focus on burning bridges. The story is told that when Cortés (or some explorer) reached the New World, he burned the boats he and his men had traveled on. The message was: you are not going back the way you came. Henry Cloud in his book, “Necessary Endings,” writes about how ending things brings about new growth. Making space for change We must make space and prepare for change by freeing up time and resources. Marsha Linehan, the Dialectical Behavior Therapy guru, says the first goal is to eliminate things that prevent change. This means getting rid of people, places and things that impede our growth. When I asked a client what he needed to do to stay sober, he said, “I should probably remove my dealer’s number from my phone.” “Do you want to do this now?” I asked. “Definitely not,” he said. Within a week, he relapsed. After detox, treatment and going to a sober house, he returned to therapy. I asked him, “Would you be willing to erase your dealer’s number now?” At this point he was willing and so was successful. Start by eliminating people who block your God-given goal. If that is not possible, minimize those connections. I know this may seem mean or brutal, but you cannot hold on to an old doorknob and open a new door. Bad relationships are the number one reason people stay stuck. Avoid looking back You must also eliminate places and things that tie you to the past and keep you from your future. What are the places that stop you from moving ahead? I had a student who worked in a bar. She kept telling me she was in one bad relationship after another. “Where did you meet these guys?” I asked. Surprisingly, she said at the bar she worked in. Let’s not get all preachy, but sometimes we just need to do something different. She changed her job, found a different type of guy and told me she was engaged. Changing places could help your goals. Finally, change the things in your life. Put down your phone. Stop the other negative things: addictions, time wasters and basic dumb things the Apostle Paul says cling to us so easily. Building bridges Once you burn bridges, prepare the way for the next step: building bridges based on passion. Passion is built on three things: 1. Investment of time 2. Investment of money 3. Making the thing you want to be passionate about a priority that trumps all other things Start by, as Jesus said, taking the speck out of your eye (or my translation: burn bridges in your life to see clearly, think clearly and act clearly to achieve your Godgiven goal.) Get rid of the people, places and things that hold you back. Jesus said we are to pick up our cross daily. When we are willing — or pray for the willingness — our resolutions might have a better chance of sticking. Dr. Phil Henry is a member of the American Counseling Association and the Florida Counseling Association. Before PBA, he taught at Temple University, Chestnut Hill College, Eastern University, and Cairn University. He has presented on many topics including Christian counseling, accelerated experiential dynamic psychotherapy (AEDP), addiction and recovery, motivational interviewing, neuroscience, and neurobiology. He is a published author and has also published several articles and book chapters. He holds a doctorate in counseling psychology from Temple University, an M.S. in counseling psychology from Chestnut Hill College, an M.Div. from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, and a bachelor’s degree in psychology from PBA. - Dr. Debra A. Schwinn - President, Palm Beach Atlantic University - Dr. Phil Henry, LMHC - PBA Professor of Counseling Reimagining New Year’s Resolutions
Good News Wants to Know… Reflecting back on the past year, Good News Wants to Know... what lesson did 2025 teach you that you didn't expect? Seeds you planted 10,20,30 years ago and forgot about, will suddenly grow in ways that are surprising. Jesus said the Kingdom of God works like that. (Mark 4:26-29) Doug Sauder, Pastor, Calvary Chapel Fort Lauderdale 2025 taught me that triumph absolutely comes from trials! Andrew Holmes, President, 4KIDS In 2025, I learned that when God calls me to a work, He faithfully equips me for it. Even in moments of doubt, He carried me through, strengthened my faith, and allowed me to serve others with greater purpose at The Caring Place.” Antonio Villasuso, President, The Caring Place As we enter 2026, 2025 has reminded me that time is in fact, “flying by”; that the harvest of lost people all around me is vast; and that I need to be more intentional and bolder in sharing the Gospel and the love of Christ. William “Bill” C. Davell, Director, Tripp Scott 1)The Dolphins don’t care about any of our feelings; 2) 100 grown-men can easily defeat a single gorilla; 3) Greenland isn’t easy to take ; 4) Aging starts sooner than we think; 5) Popes like baseball; 6) Six-seven. Bob Denison, President, Denison Yachting Sadly, 2025 taught me that we have to continue to be vigilant against hate. With the tragedy of October 7th, 2023, behind us, I was optimistic that the attacks on our Jewish friends would end. Not only has that not been the case, but Christian leaders who speak their mind, like Charlie Kirk, have been silenced by hate. We must stop it where it starts – with the children. Let us all pray that 2026 will be a year that the light shines brightly for all of us. Chip LaMarca, State Representative, Florida House District 100 What I learned is: The best thing I can do for a ministry or a person, better than giving money, better than giving advice or counsel, all of which may be needed or appropriate, is simply to consistently pray for them. It is the LORD who changes people and circumstances, not us. H. Collins Forman, Esq. 2025 was a great reminder that God always has a plan. His ways are always best, and my job is to trust and obey! He is faithful. Chris Lane, President, First Priority South Florida An unexpected lesson for me this year came through a double dose of heartache when two pastors I love and trusted proved to be unfaithful men. I shouldn't have been so shocked since our Lord answered my frequent prayer for hidden things in His church and our culture to come into His light - so healing can come. This reminded me not to put my trust in man, and it sure inspired me to pray for, appreciate and honor even more all those pastors and mighty men who are faithful and standing strong for our Lord. Deborah Cusick, FAU Campus Volunteer, Intervarsity Christian Fellowship A lesson 2025 taught me that I didn't expect was empathy/admiration for those who deal with chronic physician pain. I suffered a back injury and have had side effects for half the year. God has helped me better understand the difficulties and struggles associated with a ‘thorn in the flesh’. I marvel at those who smile through the pain, who don’t succumb to depression, who don’t over medicate themselves to a negative point, and those who continue to ‘soldier on’ with work and service to others. Dennis DeMarois, Executive Director/CEO, Gathering Palm Beach County This year, I re-learned that when I disagree with the majority or a person in leadership on a serious issue, and I have the opportunity, I need to speak up more firmly, which can be done while maintaining a spirit of love and respect. Dolores King-St. George, President, King Communications and GraceNet Radio I have been praying for years for the 200+ homeless families that sleep in their cars each night in Broward County. The first families just moved into our parking lot ministry this week. The lesson is never give up on what God can do! Dr. Fred Scarbrough, Founder, Scarbrough Animal Hospital and HOPE South Florida During times of insecurity and stress, never underestimate the power of Prayer, Faith and Trust to get you through your latest Challenge. BTW, Challenges never stop so learn to handle them. Gregg Wallick, Wallick Family Office. Lessons learned in 2025. People come and go, people change. In all things God remains faithful. Turn off the noise and listen to His still small voice. Helen Wayner, P.A., Century 21 Hansen Realty The lesson that I learned in 2025 is that I am not in charge and that my faith in God gives me strength to preserve. I experienced God’s love through healthcare providers, my family, my friends and work team. It has been a powerful year in learning this lesson. Jennifer O'Flannery Anderson, Ph.D., President/CEO, Community Foundation of Broward God’s plans are bigger than we can comprehend. My mom used to say that if we can think of it, God probably has something bigger in mind. Jesse Carroccio, Community Impact Director, Moody Global Media Bob Denison Chip LaMarca H. Collins Forman i c t c h G wi C e o a l a p s p d o b Andrew Holmes Antonio Villasuso William “Bill” C. Davell Wants to Know… Doug Sauder
y r t r f That one of the best parts of answered prayer from the Lord is found in the waiting. Our testimony isn't so much based on the answer to our prayers, but on the incredible journey of patience, faith, and perseverance we go through as we go through the waiting process. Joe Vitkus, Senior Rabbi, Temple Aron HaKodesh Reflecting on 2025, I was reminded how quickly life can change with one phone call, one diagnosis, one tragedy or one unexpected blessing. This year taught me to hold my plans loosely and my faith firmly because tomorrow is never guaranteed but God’s presence is. I’ve also learned the importance of always being ready with a word of encouragement, a prayer, or a listening ear; you never know when someone is hanging on by a thread. More than ever, I see how urgent it is to share hope in Christ in every moment we’re given. Ken Kerrigan, Pastor, Calvary Chapel Pompano Beach 2025 taught me the importance of relying on God to accomplish your goals and expectations. He asks us to work in a way that brings glory to him, but to leave the outcomes to Him. Kevin Granato, Vice President of Engagement, 4KIDS For me it was the strength the Lord gives us in the face of trial and adversity! It’s amazing when He intervenes and carries us through! Larry Lacy, Pastor, The Answer Church At my daughter’s wedding, I discovered the power of shared joy — how laughter, love, and celebration ripple through a room, transforming our family’s milestone into a collective moment of connection and gratitude. Laura C. Bishop, Executive Vice President of Development, Palm Beach Atlantic University I came into our 40-year celebration thinking that success would look like clear progress — goals met, plans fulfilled, steady forward motion. But 2025 taught me something deeper: some of the richest moments of growth come through the unexpected paths and the detours that God brings into our lives. I have learned over decades that relationships, timing, and God’s faithfulness matter more than timelines or agendas. I’ve seen firsthand that what seems like a ‘setback’ often becomes a blessing in disguise, shaping us in ways we never could have scripted. This year taught me that true success isn’t measured by how smoothly we move forward, but by how faithfully we embrace every twist along the way — trusting that God uses each step, even the surprising ones, to lead us closer to His purpose. Dr. Mary Drabik, President, South Florida Bible College and Theological Seminary As I read through some of my journals for 2025, I was pleasantly surprised to see that many of my very specific prayers had been answered. That should not be unexpected as God is supposed to answer our prayers, isn't He? However, it can be easy to pray routinely for things when the expectation of an answer is not as strong as it should be. During those times when my prayers didn’t feel effectual or fervent, I learned that God is faithful to provide answers even in those moments when I have stopped expecting any. Mike McDermott, Seniors and Probate Specialist, The Keyes Company I learned the lesson of grieving. Grieving is defined as the natural, deeply personal reaction to significant loss. Although the meaning is the same for everyone, the reaction is not. We all grieve differently, and I learned that with the passing of my father this year and watching friends deal with their own loss. Milan Stefanovic, Chief Operations & Personal Lines Officer, Bass Underwriters Despite all the changes in the world and the circumstances that arose this year, I learned the need to keep my soul settled in Christ alone. During the issues and struggles of life, I recall what Paul wrote, “Therefore, as you have received Christ Jesus the Lord, so walk in Him” (Colossians 2:6 NASB). Oksana Horton, Creative Director, Torch and Trumpet Theatre Company I really thought that by turning 70 this year, I would not have much to offer in service to others. God had other plans. Now I am running an English Writing Lab, teaching, and working as a consultant for SFBC&TS. Not only that, God has me doing something else I love. I am blessed to be on the Prayer Team at The Local Church serving others by praying for them during services. We are never too old to give of our time and talents! Patricia Colangelo, South Florida Bible College & Theological Seminary Wants to Know… Chris Lane Deborah Cusick Dennis DeMarois Dolores King St. George Dr. Fred Scarbrough Gregg Wallick Helen Wayner Jennifer O'Flannery Anderson Jesse Carroccio Joe Vitkus Ken Kerrigan Kevin Granato
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